The personal items the child brings with him or receives from his parents -- regardless of their condition, appearance, or cost – are very important to him. The child should have control of such articles and have access to them unless they pose a danger to him or others. The child should not be expected to give them up or value them less, and should never be criticized because of his attachment to such things. Packing items the child is not using in “his special box” may satisfy the child’s need to secure his belongings and the foster parent’s desire for order in the home. If the child’s lack of orderliness is a major concern, use this as an opportunity to teach him how to care for and store personal belongings.
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