As simple as it seems, changing a child’s hairstyle (without permission or when not desired by the child) can negatively affect his or her self-esteem and your relationship with his or her family. When possible, you are encouraged to discuss potential hairstyle changes with the child’s parents and the child (if he or she is old enough). You must always obtain permission from your case manager before making any changes that will alter the appearance of your foster child, including cutting long hair, straightening, perming, or coloring hair, among others.