No caretaker will exhibit all of the characteristics listed below, and some of the characteristics are contradictory.  Someone with these characteristics may or may not be abusive.  Characteristics should be used only as a general guide.

• Is unable to work under pressure;
• Lacks information, supervision or training on disciplinary techniques or how to deal with a demanding population;
• Has unrealistic expectations of themselves or children in their care;
• Feels unreasonable pressure to succeed as a “good worker”;
• Sees self as a “rescuer” to the child;
• Is unable to handle own anger;
• Is unable to cope with “situational factors” i.e., low pay, working conditions, policies, etc.;
• Does not follow agency policies and procedures governing the care and supervision of children.